tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9155297479974865683.post4990744069357958232..comments2023-10-20T09:55:26.528-04:00Comments on Blue Sky Bookshelf: Surfin' in the USFAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00343758249538361290noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9155297479974865683.post-38111924231665900402014-10-15T15:23:56.514-04:002014-10-15T15:23:56.514-04:00My first year of college was really hard for me. I...My first year of college was really hard for me. I went to a school two states away so I didn't know a single person. I had to do random roommates, obviously. The first month we all got along great but then they started hanging out with people they went to high school with. I was excluded and it made me really depressed. The classes I was taking had an average of 150 people in them, so making friends was difficult. I felt like I was getting nothing out of the college experience. The transition IS hard. It sucks most days but eventually you'll figure out who your real friends are. You'll get into a routine, you'll better balance your time, things WILL fall into place eventually, I promise! It just takes some time. Keep trucking girl <3 And if by the end of the year things aren't how you want them, don't be afraid to transfer! Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00693881573322261240noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9155297479974865683.post-90421627679281451632014-10-14T20:32:10.799-04:002014-10-14T20:32:10.799-04:00Ooh yeah. My parents didn't want me to get a j...Ooh yeah. My parents didn't want me to get a job right away and I was pushing to, but thankfully I never REALLY tried to get one. I don't know how I'd handle that. <br /><br />I've been really trying to find a church, especially one that I can meet similar-aged people. I have that club on campus, but that is so not enough. That's awful, but true that. I don't want to wish my time away (learned that post-graduation), but it does make me look forward to it. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00343758249538361290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9155297479974865683.post-67003222195201459392014-10-14T20:29:20.650-04:002014-10-14T20:29:20.650-04:00EMILY! YOU especially have been on my mind. You do...EMILY! YOU especially have been on my mind. You don't realize how many times I've written and rewritten an email to you IN MY HEAD. It feels like I already sent it (story of my life). So it's really that hasn't stayed involved. For procrastination...HELP ME<br /><br />Thanks!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00343758249538361290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9155297479974865683.post-38443006607396974092014-10-14T20:27:49.275-04:002014-10-14T20:27:49.275-04:00Thanks, Kat! I bet you'll do amazing in colleg...Thanks, Kat! I bet you'll do amazing in college when it's your time (if you decide to go!) and I think you're actually way more prepared because of your time moving. I've never moved in my life until now! Thanks ;) Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00343758249538361290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9155297479974865683.post-82241063601563565142014-10-14T20:26:38.014-04:002014-10-14T20:26:38.014-04:00I think procrastination started at college. It'...I think procrastination started at college. It's definitely a college word. Aw! It would've been great to hangout, but no worries. Next time ;) <br /><br />Haha! It's awful that you cried, but I pictured you in the H&G story. That always creeped me out as a kid more than other stories. And THANK YOU! What your dad says is what I've been telling myself right now because it's what motivating me....but I feel like I'm the only one who thinks that, which makes me feel more insecure. Oh, wow, Kel! That might be a little sad, but exciting. Good luck! <br /><br />You're amazing. This comment is amazing. I love it. Thank you.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00343758249538361290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9155297479974865683.post-9094375935218151682014-10-14T20:22:47.556-04:002014-10-14T20:22:47.556-04:00Thanks, Emma, and since I haven't been too pre...Thanks, Emma, and since I haven't been too present on here, I know it doesn't seem like it, but I'm here for you as well! Oh no. That's awful about that girl!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00343758249538361290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9155297479974865683.post-9145680048014294382014-10-11T18:32:34.691-04:002014-10-11T18:32:34.691-04:00I've been thinking of you and hoping college h...I've been thinking of you and hoping college has been going well! My college experience was different from yours and most others because it was in the same town where I graduated high school (I had only lived there two years before I started college though, so it wasn't like it was really where I was from) and lived with my parents. However, I think adjusting to the school part was hard. Most of my first classes were relatively easy, but it was a different way of doing things, and then I picked up a job a few months in, and yeah, it got stressful. <br /><br />Thankfully the social aspect of things was pretty easy for me The church I was already attending had a great college group that I transitioned right into and I already had my boyfriend and a couple of other friends there that I knew so that was nice. So sorry to hear about this semi-bully. :( Hopefully just being pleasant around her will eventually make her a little nicer. But I do understand... towards the end of college and even a little after there was a guy who joined our friend group that was really antagonistic towards my boyfriend/fiance/husband (depending on what stage of things we're talking about, lol) but not the other friends, and our other friends didn't seem to notice/care that he was this way towards us specifically. I wish I knew why he felt he needed to be that way, but at least he's elsewhere now. Maybe you won't have to deal with the floormate after this year. <br /><br />And good for you for trying out lots of new things! Who knows what you'll discover that you end up really loving! :)<br /><br />And I'm glad to hear you really liked Killer Instinct because I just bought The Naturals today, so now I'm really looking forward to reading it! :)Amy Shawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05349407376642741618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9155297479974865683.post-31129213249317815122014-10-10T17:04:42.006-04:002014-10-10T17:04:42.006-04:00Summer! <3 I was so excited to see this catch-u...Summer! <3 I was so excited to see this catch-up post pop up in my inbox - I feel like we haven't talked in ages, and I feel like I haven't been involved/supportive enough! I wish I could offer some advice, but as someone who has yet to make the switch to college and who doesn't even know how to deal with the stress of high school classes, all I have is DON'T PROCRASTINATE. Which I know is easier said than done for most people.<br /><br />Anyway, while you may be feeling lost, it sounds like you are doing a fantastic job of keeping everything together. "Free" food is the most tempting thing in the world, but all of your endorphin-releasing exercise is the perfect way to combat calories and keep yourself sane. And it's great that you're quickly figuring out who your friends are and finding your niche in various activities. The social aspect of college sounds almost as tiring as the academic one, but meeting good people is definitely worth it.<br /><br />Good luck with everything! I'm always here if you want to talk, and remember - in a few months, it will be winter break! :)Emily @ Forever Literaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06220478018390968505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9155297479974865683.post-11598153170994535262014-10-09T20:34:11.249-04:002014-10-09T20:34:11.249-04:00Wow, good luck at college! Despite that you might ...Wow, good luck at college! Despite that you might be internally freaking out right now, you're probably doing better than I ever would. I hate change as much as the next person, and although I am pretty far away from going to college (as least, I like to think so), I can somewhat sympathize since I have moved and changed schools like 4 times in the little amount of time called my lifetime. I'm glad you're still committed to blogging and reading. I know how hard it is to simply keep posting with just school going on, and especially with all those activities that you're doing, it must be tough. Don't you fret though because you have amazing people (yes, including me) supporting you and who will always be there for you when you want to get something off your chest or need a good laugh or just plain want to fangirl. And of course, Sheldon will be there too :)Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14733746700112236548noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9155297479974865683.post-57283917957760308812014-10-09T14:45:13.381-04:002014-10-09T14:45:13.381-04:00College breeds procrastination. I'm not exactl...College breeds procrastination. I'm not exactly sure why, but it does. Without fail. ;) (Unless you're taking 6 courses in one semester, 5 of which are writing intensive. Then you don't have time to procrastinate.) But now I feel awful we didn't get to hang out while I was in Florida last weekend. I could have brought you a caffeine/chocolate/book/extra silly movie care package. Oh well, I suppose I can still do that, just plus shipping. ;)<br /><br />My college experience was a little different because I commuted (and worked unholy hours babysitting each morning) but I did have at least one good cry during my semester in Spain. I also laughed like a crazy person and got lots of weird looks on my walk to school after threatening to do my own cooking. My host mom was trying to fatten me up a la Hansel and Gretel. ;)<br /><br />As Dad kept telling me, it's not about learning or having fun or any of that other stuff the pamphlets tell you; it's about working the system, getting your degree and getting out. Of course, now I'm taking the LSAT in December, so I may be a student again soon. That's depressing. :)<br /><br />Wow, this just turned into a really LONG comment. So, last thoughts: take it easy. Don't worry about the people or the classes. None of it will last forever and you'll be way less stressed the less attention you give it. And as long as you have the time, try new clubs and exercise classes and all that fun stuff. Go see plays and orchestra/band concerts while you can still get in free. Watch silly kid movies when you need a break, and, when all else fails, go for a walk in the rain. :)Kelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00938626223222252300noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9155297479974865683.post-2505637535640147732014-10-09T11:50:11.339-04:002014-10-09T11:50:11.339-04:00Wonderful post, Summer. :) I can definitely relate...Wonderful post, Summer. :) I can definitely relate on the frenemy/bully level. This girl and I were really close, and then she utterly betrayed me and my trust and has been rude since then. I am so glad your friends from home have been helpful and loving. <br />I'm always here if you need to talk or rant or whatever. :) Emmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17561861156323120664noreply@blogger.com